Wednesday, November 28, 2012

I tried to have positive vibes this morning

So this morning I woke up saying it's going to be a great day. Told myself stay happy, positive but then I get to work and check out all  my accounts and see all my bills are due and my daughter's preschool tuition is due, Christmas is around the corner. I'm about to have a melt down lol but I stopped took a deep breathe and just relaxed. I need to remember more that God is going to work it all out for me and he wouldn't give me anything that I can't handle. I have a beautiful daughter, an awesome husband, a roof over my head, a job and food on the table. I'm very grateful for that! So if there's others of you out there that are having a bad morning too, stop what your doing take a deep breathe think of all the wonderful things you have and everything is going to work out. Take a 15 minute nap on your break if that will help put you get in a better mood. (works for me all the time) Hope you all have a better afternoon!!

Positive Vibes

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Trophy wife here I come



So after having my baby I have parts on my body that jiggle that I never knew could jiggle and my stomach is no where close to looking like it did before the baby but I am smaller then I was before the baby so I will be happy about that. I don't want my body from high school back and lets be honest I don't think I could ever get that skinny again I love food to much lol I love how my body has more meat and curves to it and I know my husband loves it. (wink wink) But I would love to get it more toned. I want to look and feel my best for me #1 and then for my husband. I know people are going to say you should do it for yourself and no one else but I want to look great for my hubby. Because if you don't look and feel your best and put some effort in there going to look for it some where else. Just as I and he wants to look his best for me. You almost have to live like your always the girlfriend keeping things fun and spicy. Trust me it is hard when you work full-time and have a running toddler around and trying to cook and keep the house clean. The last thing on my mind is working out but at least there is one good thing that comes out of it, it boosts your sex drive lol Anyways I've had ACL surgery on both my knees working out is a little bit harder for me but it's not going to be my excuse anymore! And maybe with putting it out here I'll stick with it more. I started last week the Couch to 5k Running program. I hate running but it's been pretty good so far. I like how it starts off slow and little by little gets harder, which is good with me and my knee problems. So now I'm on to week 2 and let's see how that goes. I've changed it to where I'm running during the day instead of night now. So I have to push my big butt on my lunch today to do it. Wish me luck and hopefully I can finish this running challenge!!  

New to this Blogging world

So I've decided to finally start blogging after I've talked to a few friends and have seen how therapeutic it is for them. So I'm going to give it a shot. Here's a little bit about me. My names Vanessa but everyone close to me calls me Ness. I married the perfect man for me and his name is Edgar. Don't get me wrong we have our ups and downs like everyone else but we always pull through it together. We have a beautiful daughter named Mila. She changed our life around in such a great way and made my husband and I's bond even stronger. She always puts a smile on my face when I'm having a bad day. One of my favorite moments is when I walk in a room and she runs with her arms open yelling MOMMY!! I work full time at a family owned business and one of the best perks is my daughter gets to come to work with me. So I have her full time on top of my job and trying to keep up the house and everything else. I love to cook and bake but I would love for someone else to clean up the mess lol Most of our time is spent with our families and friends. On my blog I'm going to talk about everything to getting back into shape, cooking/baking, throwing parties, play dates, family issues, stuff that inspires me and everything in between. So join me on this ride called life and hope you enjoy what I write :)