Blessed

So last night I was watching Teen Mom 2 (one of my guilty pleasures to watch) and I just couldn't think of how blessed I am. You see these young moms having kids and one's divorced after what 6 months of marriage, one doesn't want to stop smoking pot & take care of her kid, one doesn't know if she wants her ex-boyfriend back or her baby's daddy and the other one her boyfriend just keeps coming back and treating her like trash and leaving her yet again. I get it's hard because your always going to have that connection with your baby's father but after he called you a fat ugly stretch mark witch with a B and wrote something nasty about their daughter in a text on national TV (he did that when she was on 16 & Pregnant), I would of been done with him then and there and he would be lucky if I let him see our daughter. I know it has to be hard being a single mom and dealing with all the problems and playing both mom and dad. I took my daughter on a little over a week vacation back east to visit family and my husband had to stay be hide and work and by day five I called him and said he's never going to leave me because it was hard just to handle her on my own and not have that support of him helping me if I need a break. (the baby and I were both deadly sick at the time of our trip so that made it even worse) It's just made me think that I am so lucky to have a man who stuck by my side when WE got pregnant. My husband and I were dating for about 7yrs and then one day I found out I was pregnant. No I wasn't married before and I didn't do it the traditional way but my man could of left me or said how do I know that it's my baby and pulled some stupid card like that. But instead he stuck by my side we decided to get married and this baby has just made our bond even stronger. Watching him play and take care of our daughter just makes me love him even more. My husband takes great care of my daughter and I and maned up and took care of his responsibilities. I truly thank god for what he has given me. I hope one day these girls can find a man in there life that loves and treats them and their child with the respect that they deserve!